@chuangtse 目前全职，可以兼职做些项目，可以加我 Q0tjcnlzdGFsY2xlYXI=

目前全职，可以兼职做些项目，可以加我 Q0tjcnlzdGFsY2xlYXI=

看了一圈，感慨现在男女对立太严重了，男性和女性之间相互的恶意好大。感情不应该完全是一笔买卖，但也不可能完全是纯爱。况且楼主本身就是相亲贴，多一些包容与真诚，以及最少不要恶言伤害别人吧。。

写的很理性很清晰，楼上恶意太大了。一起奋斗和有房子基础并不冲突的。

@zaunist 感觉并不是一根不吸才叫戒掉了烟, 偶尔吸一两根其实还好... 我的做法是不买烟, 只要家里没烟也懒得去买. 一年下来可能就三四盒, 基本是出去玩跑高速会买一包

个人观点: 正确做法: 支持她, 并且把家里一切照顾好让她能够放心开心的玩, 尽量在这期间少联系少打扰她. 好的关系应该祝福彼此变得更好更快乐.

@luojianxhlxt 正是如此, 再熟悉的路也要导航, 因为要避免拥堵或事故的意外情况, 以及可以观察红绿灯倒计时...

拜灭士 + 蟑螂屋, 之前半夜蟑螂爬到冰箱直接跳闸... 一直以为是冰箱不太好了, 知道发现了大蟑螂... 并且有一天半夜直接爬到了脸上!!!! 恐惧啊... 后来用了蟑螂屋和拜灭士立竿见影. 应该是有用的, 我那会抓到的蟑螂最少也是几十只了. 注意蟑螂屋和下药的位置也比较重要, 最好阴暗的地方都放上

分子+1

谢谢 op, 使用中发现一个问题, 一些 pop 不需要跳转, 比如 v2 的感谢按钮, 所以更新了一版

// ==UserScript==
// @name Force All Links to Open in New Tab
// @namespace http://tampermonkey.net/
// @version 1.0
// @description Make all links open in a new tab, while keeping the original page unchanged
// @match *://*/*
// @grant none
// @license MIT
// ==/UserScript==

(function () {
'use strict';

function isPopupOrInteractiveLink(link) {
const url = link.href;

// Check if link has any event handlers (interactive functionality)
if (link.onclick || link.getAttribute('onclick') ||
link.getAttribute('onmousedown') || link.getAttribute('onmouseup')) {
return true;
}

// Check for data attributes that indicate JavaScript functionality
if (link.hasAttribute('data-toggle') || link.hasAttribute('data-target') ||
link.hasAttribute('data-dismiss') || link.hasAttribute('data-action') ||
link.hasAttribute('data-modal') || link.hasAttribute('data-popup')) {
return true;
}

// Check for CSS classes that typically indicate interactive elements
const interactiveClasses = ['modal-trigger', 'popup-trigger', 'lightbox-trigger',
'dialog-trigger', 'overlay-trigger', 'accordion-trigger',
'tab-trigger', 'dropdown-trigger', 'tooltip-trigger'];
if (interactiveClasses.some(cls => link.classList.contains(cls))) {
return true;
}

// Check for hash-only links that are used for JavaScript interactions
if (url.endsWith('#') || url.endsWith('#;') || url.includes('#!') ||
url === window.location.href + '#' || url === '#') {
return true;
}

// Check for javascript: URLs
if (url.startsWith('javascript:')) {
return true;
}

// Check for void(0) patterns
if (/void\(0\)/i.test(url)) {
return true;
}

// Check for same-page anchors (internal page navigation)
if (url.includes('#') && url.split('#')[0] === window.location.href.split('#')[0]) {
return true;
}

// Common popup URL patterns
const popupPatterns = [
/popup/i, /modal/i, /overlay/i, /lightbox/i, /dialog/i, /window\.open/i,
/fancybox/i, /colorbox/i, /thickbox/i, /magnific/i, /photoswipe/i,
/gallery/i, /slideshow/i, /carousel/i, /accordion/i, /tabs?/i,
/dropdown/i, /tooltip/i, /share/i, /social/i
];

return popupPatterns.some(pattern => pattern.test(url));
}

function openInNewTab(event) {
const link = event.target.closest('a'); // Find the clicked link
if (link && link.href && !link.hasAttribute('target')) {
// Check if this is a popup or interactive link
if (isPopupOrInteractiveLink(link)) {
// Let popup/interactive links behave normally (don't interfere)
return;
}

event.preventDefault(); // Block the default behavior
event.stopPropagation(); // Prevent bubbling so internal JS won't trigger navigation
setTimeout(() => {
window.open(link.href, '_blank'); // Open link in a new tab
}, 50); // Small delay for compatibility
}
}

// Attach the click listener to the whole document
document.addEventListener('click', openInNewTab, true);
})();

@adsjcxeicxzs 原文更加准确

Life is like a river, and your life is a single-person raft drifting down that river. When you form a relationship you are tying a rope around someone else’s raft, and pulling them close to you so that as you carry on through the river of life, you won’t drift apart.

But sometimes the rapids will get more intense, and sometimes there will be boulders, or even other rafts that come between you and force your rafts apart. Sometimes one of you will end up in a fast-moving current while the other one ends up in the shallows, and slows down. When that happens, some of those ropes you’ve tied will weaken and some of them will break away.

When these problems arise, the ultimate question is not whether your relationship can survive— it’s whether you both want it to. It’s going to take some effort to pull your rafts back together. If you’re moving at different speeds then one of you may have to speed up or slow down their plans, or, more likely, you’ll meet somewhere in the middle.

But if you’re no longer moving through life at the same rate, in the same direction, or with the same destination in mind, then it’s okay to let go. We’re all going over a waterfall in the end, so don’t waste your time on the river struggling to stay with someone who doesn’t respect your own path.

reddit 看到的, 感觉很透彻, 翻译后分享出来:
生活如同一条缓缓流淌的河，而你的人生就是独自漂行的小筏。当你与某人建立关系，你便用绳索把对方的筏系在自己身边，让彼此在河流中同行，不至于漂散。

然而，有时急流汹涌，有时礁石横亘，甚至其他筏子会挡在你们之间，将你们分开。偶尔，你顺流而下，他却滞于浅滩，渐渐拉开距离。此时，那些绳索，有的会松弛，有的会断裂。

面对这些波折，最终的问题不是关系能否继续，而是你们是否真心想要继续。要让筏子重聚，需要付出努力。有时，你得加速前行，有时，你得放慢脚步；更常见的，是在河流的某处相遇，在中间的某点找到平衡。

但若你们不再同向而行，不再步调一致，也不再怀抱相同的目标，那么放手也是一种解脱。毕竟，我们终将迎来瀑布之落，不必在河上，为了不尊重你生命之道的人，耗尽时光与力气。